Romantic Love Story 2022 - Denmohor
Story Name : Denmohor
After my marriage was almost finalized, there was a breakdown in the issue of Denmohar's number. I have heard this happen to some of my girlfriends but I never imagined that the same thing could happen to me.
I have been talking to Shahid regularly on my mobile phone since I first met him a couple of weeks ago. Neither of the two families interrupted. But before breaking up the relationship, no one felt the need to know my opinion
I opened the address book of my mobile and looked at the name Shahed. With the push of a finger, the name Shahed will be deleted from the address book. What's really going on? It may not be enough time to fall in love but it was enough to feel good. The plan of where to go after marriage was also made. I didn't even think that there would be any problem with Denmohar.
I can't even say anything to my father or mother. My elder sister was married for 15 lakh rupees. My father offered me 20 lakh rupees. Shahid's parents said 6 lakh. After hearing such low numbers, my uncle, aunt and uncle all vetoed. This marriage will not be busy.
Big sister came and informed me of the decision, she didn't even ask me. In this society, the opinion of girls has no value.
The mobile is ringing. An unknown number. Usually I don't catch it, what do I think today. A lady's throat dropped,
- Who's Hello?
- Yes, you.
- I wanted to talk to you, Shahid's mother.
- Yes, I hear
- Shahid doesn't like anyone easily. After accepting three or four offers, he liked you. In fact, I like you very much, mother. Problems with Denmohar, have you heard anything?
- Yes, Auntie. Apur Denmohar is 15 lakhs, Abbura says it should be at least 20 lakhs. It's a matter of rabbis, I don't know anything else.
- Well, listen. However, I would like to explain to you that since this is a matter of your life and this financial security is also yours. This is a very high figure that is currently being fixed, is this money collected? Do you give money before marriage? Many do not even give after marriage Many have filed for divorce but have not been able to get this high dowry, right?
- I don't know, Auntie, but I haven't heard.
- Shahid's salary is about 60 thousand. 20 lakh is his salary for 3 years. If you do not steal so much money, where will you get it? He is only thirty years old, he has been in the job for three years. He wants to get married with his own money so he has saved money for so long. In the beginning the salary was also low.
He has set aside 6 lakh rupees to pay the dowry, Basar will give a check to his wife at night. We have no claim, mother. Shahid has also bought his own bedroom furniture, and will not take anything from his father-in-law's house. The bridegroom will not come too much, so your father will not have much trouble.
Surely you don't want Shahid to get married and fall into a huge pressure or debt? And Shahid probably has a plan to perform Hajj with you next year. You will bear your expenses from Denmohar, that is, you will come for Hajj with your own money. The rest is your savings. Hello Dina, are you listening? We like you very much so I shared so much. I said the words even after your mama called and refused. Good luck. Take care of yourself
I was listening to the lady like fascinated. What a beautiful plan.
I sat unconscious for about half an hour. It took ten minutes to settle down. Ten, twelve people including father, mother, uncle, aunt and uncle are chatting in the drawing room. I went and stood in front of everyone. My throat did not tremble at all.
- Dad, I will marry Shahid.
I have no objection to 6 lakh denmohar. You make arrangements.
Everyone is staring. No one has ever seen me talk like that. Some people think that Dina can talk about her own marriage.
I left the room without giving anyone a chance to say anything. I heard my mother's voice a little, saying shameless girl!
Exactly three weeks later, my marriage with Shahid ended. Later I heard that my father had sided with me in the face of opposition from others. Said, this girl of mine never wants anything. I don't want his wish to remain unfulfilled. Later, if he gets in trouble with another, he can blame for the rest of his life. Besides, there is no claim of the boy's side, everyone likes Shahed well enough
It would not be right to break up just for Denmohar, when they are saying that they will pay the whole Denmohar in advance.
In the meantime, my future mother-in-law has called several times and inquired. I got used to calling Aunty.
When I was handed over to Shahid on my wedding day, I was suddenly overwhelmed with emotion. The makeup on her face was covered with tears. I didn't want to hug my mother and leave. I am the darling little girl of my mother, I have never been without my mother. I don't even know how to be now. Only the girls have to go to the in-laws' house, who has made this strange rule. The opposite could have happened. I decided that what I really needed to do was learn how to do it right.
The day after the wedding, my mother-in-law called and said,
- Look, I don't want our relationship to be the usual wife-mother-in-law type. There are only 4 people in this house. Your father-in-law, me, your Nanad Mili and Shahed. I will teach you the weaknesses of the other three. If you follow them with a little care, in a few months you will see that you have become very dear to everyone, can't you?
- Yes, Auntie.
He stared at me with strange eyes for a while. Then he smiled,
- You can call Auntie, no problem. There is no need to call a stranger by force if the mother does not want to call.
For the first few days, I could not understand how the crowd of guests, relatives and friends was cut off. And at least three invitations every week. Dad's home was only half an hour away, and I slept on my mother's lap at least twice a week.
I have read all the horrible stories and experiences about mothers-in-law on Facebook. My hands and feet trembled in terror after reading a few. I do not know what misfortune is written on the forehead. I like some aspects of my mother-in-law very much. He has nothing in common with the stories. He never came to our room without knocking. And on holidays at noon when Shahed hugs and sleeps a little, he never knocks. In the afternoon we waited until we came out.
Taught me some wisdom. What kind of tea-biscuit does the father-in-law like, how to shake his head while listening to his political analysis while reading the newspaper after ten o'clock in the morning, like a compelled student Loves to drink tea, go to the food court in the market next door and eat yoghurt. Favorite outing and favorite shopping is to buy a purse.
Millie's collection has at least 48 purses of different colors and designs. And even though Shahid himself is untidy, he loves to see everything around him tidy. My mother-in-law has been doing this job for so long. The habit of chatting with friends two days a week. This chat can not be bothered or accepted It's different if you let go of yourself.
Just shook his head and said,
- I couldn't quit smoking Shahid. Can you see But don't bother with it at the beginning. If the relationship is stronger with time then.
I said,
- Aunty, I heard the others. What is your weakness?
Aunty laughed and blew away,
- If you can find out. I see what kind of girl you are.
One day he saw her walking around the kitchen and said,
- Look, Mom, I know you want to cook something you like. But I ate your home cooking. Turmeric, pepper gives more, a little salty.
Our home style is different. Shahid and his father can not eat. You can make tea for now, if you understand the taste of home cooking in a few months then you can.
Shahid does not waste time when he goes to the office. When she saw the clothes coming from the roof folding, she said,
- There are people to do these things. You have time now. Get admitted in Masters, once you become a mother, girls no longer have time for themselves, they just want to live for others. Finish the study at once. I made this mistake, Masters is no more.
You can also take some job experience after finishing reading. It is important for the soil under the feet of girls to be hard. Look, I'm dependent, I have no ability to earn. But as long as I'm strong, you don't have to worry about housework. I can raise grandchildren too, your mother will not need help.
O mother, listening to the words of the grandchildren, I see my daughter's cheeks are turning red, blue and purple. Hey, I didn't tell you to take it now.
I was ashamed and ran away. But Aunty didn't forget to say it, she really brought the master's admission form and submitted it to Shahed. Nah, this woman is not going to leave at all. I thought I would spend a year in the joy of marriage. I will walk, walk around, make noise. Only five months have passed since the marriage and classes will start one month later in the new semester.
When I think of sitting down with the book again, I have a fever.
Lately, I am surprised to think that going to my mother has decreased a lot. In the beginning it was twice a week, at least now it is not twice a month. Talking on the phone is not good. My mother calls me every day but she doesn't want to know anything about our family.
He said, let's not talk about this side and that side. Sometimes my stomach swells up to say something but my mother stops me whenever I want to say something. Said, when you grow up, you manage. I have learned a lot before marriage. I was forced to ask my aunt a lot of things.
Sometimes, of course, two or three times he had an argument with her.
I went to my mother in anger. Ammu sat next to him for an hour, caressed him and sent him back. He wanted to stay for a few days but did not pay attention. If Shahed is free, he has come and taken him away and when he is busy, his father has come and dropped him off. It was a shame to come back so early but it didn't take long to forget about Auntie's behavior.
No one sleeps at noon. Aunty watches a Turkish serial. Seeing that, I also became a fan of that serial. Although there is a TV in the bedroom, I watch it while sitting in the drawing room with my aunt. A lot of things were discussed with Aunty then. I am fascinated by his experiences and explanations about family, society and relationships.
I went to our house for a few days, my father's pressure increased. Shahid came and went down, did not stay. He said on the phone that night, Aunty has a high fever. No problem, paracetamol will be fine. The next night at around eleven o'clock, Aunty was diagnosed with dengue. Admitted to the clinic, the body is quite weak. The platelets have dropped below one lakh, and if they drop further, they may have to be transferred to a hospital that has life support.
My chest twisted. Dad was next door. The conversation has reached his ears a bit. Seeing my face, my father got up and put his shirt on.
- Come on, Mommy, I'll drop you off at the hospital.
My father dropped my bag and did not stand. He said, I will come in the morning with your mother. There is no better body.
I entered the cabin and left my bag and sat next to Shahid. I have never been to the hospital before tonight. I didn't wake up at night for anyone. If Abbu Ammu was admitted to the hospital, Aunt, Apu and others managed. I would go home on duty during the day.
I took Shahid's hand and begged him,
- You have an office in the morning. At night I will be by my aunt's side. You go now When I go to the office in the morning, take off my breakfast and some of my clothes. Millie will pack, I'll explain to her by calling.
Aunty is sleeping. The body is covered with a white sheet up to the neck. I grabbed his right hand and pulled the chair beside him. The other hand is running saline.
I remember all the memories from the wedding day. How to keep it like a mother from the beginning. I didn't know anything about the new family, I didn't understand anything. Following his wise advice, I am now Shahid's favorite wife, Millie's favorite sister-in-law and father-in-law's favorite grandmother.
It seemed that without this lady I would see complete darkness in this world. I need her for many more years, to be my guardian, to be my mother.
I did not notice when the tears flowed down my forehead.
They were falling on Aunty's hand. I never thought that in just a few months, with such a small identity, a woman without blood relationship would impress my existence, identity and emotions in such a way.
I didn't even see when he opened his eyes. He smiled softly at me,
- Why are you crying, mother?
- Mom, you can't leave us so soon. I won't let you go anywhere.
- I'm not going anywhere, crazy girl.
Many more years are left to take care of this girl. Didn't you ask my weakness? You are my weakness. Did you notice that you called me "Mother" for the first time today? I was looking forward to this day. When I saw the dengue, I was cursed.
I laughed with teary eyes,
- Let's see how many years you can take the service.
After four days, my mother recovered a little. I packed my bags and returned home with my mother.
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